flowerais-deactivated20211031:
remember the last time you felt loved? your worth hasn’t changed. the lovable parts of you are still here. it’s only a quiet week, a quiet year. but you’re still loved. you’re still the same. you’ll feel loved again. you will.
(via flowerhope)
flowerais-deactivated20211031:
soft reminder: you’re doing so well, especially knowing how long you’ve been trying, and how difficult it is to do!! keep going and practicing with dedication. amazing things can and will happen.
(via flowerhope)
some of u bitches r trying your hardest to stay positive and hopeful despite all the bullshit you’ve been going thru and it really shows and i’m proud of u
(via adhurikahani)
“It’s okay to change your yes to a no. Yeses aren’t permanent. They’re something we choose again and again, each and every day. Something we have the right to recall and reconsider as soon as saying yes no longer feels conducive to our wellbeing and happiness. It doesn’t matter whether you said yes to a job, a date, a relationship, sex, a favor to a friend, a social endeavor, or a vow of silence — you don’t ever have to commit to something that forces you to compromise who you are and what feels right; especially if it’s something you agreed to under pressure, intimidation, or force. Changing your yes to a no might make people angry. It might hurt their feelings, cause them to see you as a flake, and result in lost connections. But if saying no means staying true to yourself, honoring your feelings, and making self-care a priority, it’s worth it. You are worth it. Don’t let anyone convince you otherwise.”— Daniell Koepke
A bashful young wombat trots up to you… Your day improves.
(via everythingfox)
(via overfierce)
friendlyneighbourhoodpapergay:
Yet another reminder that faking is a conscious choice that you make.
It is not something you can do accidentally, regards of what you’re talking about.
You can’t accidentally fake depression, or anxiety, or bipolar disorder, or schizophrenia, or any other mental illness.
You can’t accidentally fake Borderline Personality Disorder, Histrionic Personality Disorder, personality disorders.
You can’t accidentally fake ADHD, autism, Tourette’s Syndrome, auditory processing disorder, aphasia or any other neurodivergence
You can’t accidentally fake being trans or ace-spec or aro-spec or any other LGBTQIA+ identity.
You can’t accidentally fake chronic illnesses like CFS, fibromyalgia or any chronic illness.
You also can’t accidentally fake being good/intelligent at something. You didn’t fool your peers into reaching your position.
You can’t accidentally fake trauma, PTSD/cPTSD, DID/OSDD/DDNOS or any other trauma-based disorder.
Tldr:
Faking is a conscious choice.
You cannot do it by accident.
If you are worried that you are faking, that in itself is proof that you are not.
(via desultory-suggestions)
